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Achieving your dreams
- 20-05-2010
- Categorized in: Personal Development
While most people spend most of their lives struggling to earn a living, a much smaller number seem to have everything going their way. Instead of just earning a living, the smaller group is busily working at building and enjoying a fortune.
Everything just seems to work out for them. And here sits the much larger group, wondering how life can be so unfair, so complicated and unjust. What's the major difference between the little group with so much and the larger group with so little?
Despite all of the factors that affect our lives - like the kind of parents we have, the schools we attended, the part of the country we grew up in - none has as much potential power for affecting our futures as our ability to dream.
Dreams are a projection of the kind of life you want to lead.Dreams can drive you. Dreams can make you skip over obstacles. When you allow your dreams to pull you, they unleash a creative force that can overpower any obstacle in
your path. To unleash this power, though, your dreams must be well defined. A fuzzy future has little pulling power.
Well-defined dreams are not fuzzy. Wishes are fuzzy. To really achieve your dreams, to really have your future plans pull you forward, your dreams must be vivid.
If you've ever hiked a fourteen thousand-foot peak in the Rocky Mountains, one thought has surely come to mind "How did the settlers of this country do it?" How did they get from the East Coast to the West Coast? Carrying one day's supply of food and water is hard enough. Can you imagine hauling all of your worldly goods with you . . . mile after mile, day after day, month after month? These people had big dreams.
They had ambition. They didn't focus on the hardship of getting up the mountain.
In their minds, they were already on the other side - their bodies just hadn't gotten them there yet! Despite all of their pains and struggles, all of the births and deaths along the way, those who made it to the other side had a single vision: to reach the land of continuous sunshine and extraordinary wealth. To start over where anything and everything was possible. Their dreams were stronger than the obstacles in their way.
You've got to be a dreamer. You've got to envision the future. You've got to see California while you're climbing fourteen thousand-foot peaks. You've got to see the finish line while you're running the race. You've got to hear the
cheers when you're in the middle of a monster project. And you've got to be willing to put yourself through the paces of doing the uncomfortable until it becomes comfortable. Because that's how you realize your dreams.









Written by: Jim Rohn
Yes I understand what you are saying in your article about looking further, but there is one big factor that you didn't mention. I am a single mum who works full time. I have the dream to buy and investment property but all the banks and building societies say I don't earn enough money. SO I GUESS THERE IS MORE TO IT THAN YOU SUGGEST. I am a clerk. Guess I chose the wrong job.
I guess it will have to stay as a dream.
I really hear what you are saying....yes; some goals seem totally unachievable. When we read of others succeeding its hard to accept that you could also.
I am not a single mother so i have no right to to offer advice...it must be exhausting...and the desire to give your child a secure future when working in a low paying position i can only imagine must be hard.
Please....dont lose hope. I know that every person who reads your story wants you to succeed. Break it down, into very small achievements. Make it real to you and your family. Involve them, get them onboard with the dream.......
There are people out there that will help you...
You may be able to get some 'vendors finance'...you may attract a 'finance angel' similiar to a business angel like i did.
There are investors out there who will help you because they have made so much money they can afford to be generous with finance rates and terms.
DONT EVER GIVE UP!
Your situation is challenging, but if you really want to change your circumstances, you CAN find a way to borrow the money, learn how to invest it effectively and create the profit or equity you need as seed capital for future investments.
For example - and I have no idea of your circumstances - You could borrow a deposit off relatives (which you would pay them fair interest on) to help you get the loan, buy a property in a location which is affordable (so it's not too large a loan), improve the property and rent it for close to the loan payments until in a few years the rent pays the loan (including the deposit).
Your first step is to buy books which explain how to invest and books which change your belief level about yourself. read everything you can get your hands on, join investing forums and save up for a deposit and save to join a mentoring program. These are small steps towards your end goal you can do right now for free.
The limit of what you can do is set by your own mind and your own belief, and these factors are controlled by you. Books will allow you to believe more. Read your own comments above and judge your own belief level. Then take action to change it. Literally thousands of people with much less money than you have right now, have achieved financial independence and wealth far exceeding your current dreams. Their stories provide evidence this is the truth. If you choose to, your success story (you are about to make) could be the story to drive others towards self belief in the future.
Best wishes
Justin